I asked some people on Reddit and here is a curation of some of the best responses. Some of the things may be obvious, others not so much. Some of the traits mentioned may not be the cause nor do I think all of these are necessary but I would like to list the notable ones: preselection (being in a rock band), high levels of REAL charm, being social and friendly to EVERYONE no matter how attractive they are, confidence, no hesitation, doing what you want immediately, approaching everyone no matter their attractiveness, great conversation skills, looks/fashion/hygiene always spot on, physique, not giving a fuck, being passionate, being super social, maintain constant good eye contact, being in the moment, clearing negative thoughts out immediately, being amazing with people and being able to make friends even if you move to a new city by yourself, having the badass vibe and being a bad ass, being polarizing even if it means pissing a lot of people off.
One case study showed that you don’t need money. This man was broke. Again, I think it depends on a lot of factors. The type of women you want. What these people consider attractive. The fact that more money can certainly help. Especially if you get to the centimillionaire Dan Bilzerian status and flaunt your wealth with mansions. But again, Dan Bilzerian’s method is catered to his mansion. He gets promoters to bring the girls into the mansion – most likely by advertising the mansion and who it is they’re going to see. You can have a mansion or $1 million in the bank but you can’t necessary show that to a person if you’re dressing homeless and you’re just meeting. And do you really want to?
My buddy named Tex mex, he always has women, and hot ones all ver him..He fucked so many hot women it’s not even funny! And women are drawn to him and it used to piss me off.. This guy is passionate and doesn’t give a fuck at ALL..he always speaks the truth even if it’s negative and drinks ALOT, Smokes weed is Extremely social and doesn’t have a job, he been in A lot of fights and doesn’t give a fuck he will fight in the snap of a finger… He has a way about him that everybody loves being around him he shows people that he cares about them and accepts them….he is always intense and even sometimes he would stay inside all day every day playing video games, drinking beer and smoking weed…and yet we would go somewhere and he would still be super social annd attract the bitches…
One time he got his car towed because he was out at a bar with 2 HOT fucking women, and we went to meet him and he was SUPER PISSED , like pissed and showing it..he doesn’t hide it, and when we went to the tow place, he was fucking staring the guy down behind the window and he was staring intensely at him and didn’t break eye contact, and didn’t say anything (he was in fight mode), that was fucking hilarious to me at the time and I still chuckle thinking about it….they ended up shaking hands and hugged after he was about to fight him…
Well I would ask tex questions about how he was so good with women and I asked if you make eye contact a lot and he said yes, keep looking them in the eyes and you’ll make her fall in love or atleast be able to tell if she likes you…(he did this in the store once and it was funny as hell but it was confident as hell too).. I asked him how important it was to be in the moment, he said you have to be in the moment dawg, negative shit is gonna come through yourind and you just have to clear that shit out…
This guy is fucking amazing with people in general. He can move to a town with no friends all alone and have people over everyday if he wanted to..
flip Side…..
He did piss people off, he had a way of pissing you off Sooooo Much you wanted to fucking kill him. And there is times, a lot where he would just have bad energy and feel like shit and would be complaining a lot…his down was equal to the highs of his ups…..
To sum it all up, Tex didn’t Give, A , Fuck. And it was 100% apparent..He is always broke and could still pull he hotties you only wish you had. He was considered a dirty loser of society, the type the government couldn’t give a shit less if he was dead or alive. And when he drives, he fucking drives, hard and fast. A lot of guys hate on him because he is like a badass “hippy” type without the peace, but I’m willing to bet my bank account that he is fucking a bad ass, sexy woman.. As he is never without a woman.
This gay guy in college. Ok I know he is gay, but he can charm literally any girl in college. What does he have? A very large social circle, good looks and CHARM. Even though im not fond of gays, man is he charming and he is always interested in what you say. Looks and hygiene and fashion are always spot on. And he is nice to EVERYONE, not just the hot bitches. He even holds hands with bitches and gives them kisses and shit and is always surrounded with girls, so he is always meeting more.
And to the people that will say that he gets attention because he is gay, i dont think so. There are a lot of better looking gays in my college that have charm no where near his level and conversation skills just suck.