As someone who has purchased low- to high-ticket courses, communities, and coaching in various personal development fields, including health, fitness, making money, YouTube advice, career, and dating advice, I want to share how I’ve observed most students behave. I want to focus on dating advice, although the same trends play out in other fields, to… Continue reading Why A Small Percent Of People Who Take Dating Programs See Massive Success
3 Lesser Known Dating Advice Principles
I want to provide three principles about dating advice that most people don’t realize are true. These lessons are from experience after taking and trying a lot of dating advice, some of which I paid a lot for. 1. Dating Advice Is Not Additive There’s a lot of contradictory dating advice and people who believe… Continue reading 3 Lesser Known Dating Advice Principles
Do What You Enjoy Vs. The Discipline To Do What You Don’t Want To
Two common themes of advice given in personal development and make money advice is: Do what you enjoy. Then, you never have to work. And you’ll outwork others and succeed! And possibly get rich! It’s not about enjoying it. It’s all about discipline and willpower. Continue to build this muscle. People succeed by being able… Continue reading Do What You Enjoy Vs. The Discipline To Do What You Don’t Want To
How To Become Less Agreeable: The Disagreeable Challenge
Being very agreeable is a common problem for many men in the modern world. In some areas of life, it’s fine. The world rewards you for being agreeable. But in other fields, it just doesn’t work. In career and business, the overly agreeable person is usually sub-communicating subservient, low-status behavior. They come off needy, desperate,… Continue reading How To Become Less Agreeable: The Disagreeable Challenge
Why I’m Trying To Become Less Of The Stereotypical Asian Nice Guy
In most areas of life, the world has taught us that being agreeable works great. People prefer harmonious relationships in the workplace and in communities. One area it doesn’t work is dating. The over-agreeable, nice guy is seen as lower value and not as attractive, someone who is too willing to bend over backwards and… Continue reading Why I’m Trying To Become Less Of The Stereotypical Asian Nice Guy
Why Most Men Get So Few Matches on Dating Apps
I was in the middle of a photoshoot for a dating app at a fancy lounge when a young server interrupted and said, “I don’t get all this. Why don’t you just be yourself and take a normal photo (instead of a photoshoot)?” The photographer and I went on to explain to her how a… Continue reading Why Most Men Get So Few Matches on Dating Apps
Kids Steal $230M In Crypto And Get Caught In The Dumbest Way
Very recently, there’s been news of three 20- and 21-year old kids who stole allegedly $230M in crypto from an individual via a phishing social engineering scam. While very entertaining, there’s also a lesson to be learned here. These videos cover the main points in a very funny way. But the gist of it is… Continue reading Kids Steal $230M In Crypto And Get Caught In The Dumbest Way
Using An Alter Ego To Change Your Life
I recently stumbled across a few videos by someone called David Bond that gave me some epiphanies. One idea he posed is what we belief turns into a self-fulfilling prophecy. He gives the example of an influencer he used to follow on Instagram. Every one of this man’s photos is him flaunting wealth, whether it… Continue reading Using An Alter Ego To Change Your Life
How to Recognize and Tame Your Negative Self-Sabotaging Thoughts [Podcast]
It’s been a while since a podcast episode! Here is the latest one! Like this show? Please leave a rating here — even one review helps! Listen on all podcast platforms:
How Crutches and Bandaids Affect Your Social & Dating Life
Throughout my years, I’ve seen many people use what they’re comfortable or good with as a crutch in their social and dating lives. They’ll lean on what they’re comfortable with and avoid the areas they are weak in, unconsciously stifling their potential growth. It’s human nature to run away from pain and towards comfort, even… Continue reading How Crutches and Bandaids Affect Your Social & Dating Life