In most areas of life, the world has taught us that being agreeable works great. People prefer harmonious relationships in the workplace and in communities. One area it doesn’t work is dating. The over-agreeable, nice guy is seen as lower value and not as attractive, someone who is too willing to bend over backwards and… Continue reading The Disagreeable Challenge
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Kids Steal $230M In Crypto And Get Caught In The Dumbest Way
Very recently, there’s been news of three 20- and 21-year old kids who stole allegedly $230M in crypto from an individual via a phishing social engineering scam. While very entertaining, there’s also a lesson to be learned here. These videos cover the main points in a very funny way. But the gist of it is… Continue reading Kids Steal $230M In Crypto And Get Caught In The Dumbest Way
Using An Alter Ego To Change Your Life
I recently stumbled across a few videos by someone called David Bond that gave me some epiphanies. One idea he posed is what we belief turns into a self-fulfilling prophecy. He gives the example of an influencer he used to follow on Instagram. Every one of this man’s photos is him flaunting wealth, whether it… Continue reading Using An Alter Ego To Change Your Life
50,000 Person Survey Reveals Do More Plates Equal More Dates?
Jeff Nippard is one of my favorite fitness YouTubers and has been over 10+ years. That’s because he uses a lot of scientific evidence to support his claims in the videos. He’s head and shoulders above many other gurus who simply make claims. He recently released an epic video revealing the findings of his survey… Continue reading 50,000 Person Survey Reveals Do More Plates Equal More Dates?
Very Important People – A Book Summary
The premise is so outrageous. it’s like the TV show Jersey Shore where you get a peek into the craziest world that you never otherwise would know awbout. The author is a former fashion model and sociologist, who wanted to study the ins and outs of the highest, most exclusive, wealthiest levels of the nightlife… Continue reading Very Important People – A Book Summary
A Law of Human Nature: Inability to Discard Working Mental Models
When a person finds a way of achieving a goal, they build a mental model about how the world works and the right way of doing things to get this result. If they feel satisfied with the results and this model yields the most results they have ever achieved, they assume it is the best… Continue reading A Law of Human Nature: Inability to Discard Working Mental Models
You Don’t Need The Latest Personal Development Fad To Succeed
I’ve been blogging, vlogging, and podcasting about personal development for about 8 to 9 years. And towards the latter years, there’s often a young man who reaches out to me via email or social media asking me about the latest fad, eager to hear me talk about it or thinking it’s the hottest, freshest, most… Continue reading You Don’t Need The Latest Personal Development Fad To Succeed
Why Are So Many Influencers Getting Divorced or Cheated On? [Podcast]
There has been a flurry of celebrity and influencer divorces and cheating situations happening recently, more than usual. At least, that’s what it feels like. While this is a little bit of a divergence from our typical topics, this does tie into personal development because your life partner, as Alex Hormozi says, is one of… Continue reading Why Are So Many Influencers Getting Divorced or Cheated On? [Podcast]
Never Trust Dating Advice From A Guru In Another Field
For those who aren’t aware, Gary Vaynerchuk is a famous social media business guru. He has millions of followers across many platforms, so many creators turn to him for advice and he’s really established himself as the expert in the space for entrepreneurship and social media marketing. Yet I recently thought about something he said… Continue reading Never Trust Dating Advice From A Guru In Another Field
Mastering the Art of Feedback: A Lesson in Discernment
Giving feedback is how we grow. How do we identify our blind spots if we don’t get some? But have you ever given someone some tips on how they can improve or what they’re doing wrong and they take it personally? Perhaps, they lash out at you, attack you personally, or get offended and defensive.… Continue reading Mastering the Art of Feedback: A Lesson in Discernment